The Thread Finder
Life & Career Reinvention Coach for Women Over 50
I should know by now. That thought is probably why you're here.
Are You Here Because Something No Longer Fits?
You've built a career. Made the difficult decisions. Led the teams, handled the responsibility, supported the people who needed you.
And now you've arrived at a moment that surprises you with how hard it is.
I should know by now.
That thought, quiet or loud, is probably why you're here.
You're confused because for most of your life, knowing what you wanted was never the only thing you had to consider. You became extraordinarily competent inside structures built by other people.
Now the structure no longer fits. And that's not a failure of self-knowledge. That's the most human thing in the world.
This Might Feel Familiar
You've tried to figure this out. Books, podcasts, courses, psychotherapy, frameworks. You've talked it through with people you trust. You've made lists, done the exercises, sat with it, slept on it.
And you're still circling.
The questions running underneath everything sound something like this.
Why can't I figure this out? Why do I keep changing my mind? Why do I need someone else to help me with this? How can I be so capable and still feel this uncertain?
These aren't signs that something is wrong with you. They're signs that you've spent decades being competent inside structures that told you what mattered and whether you were doing well.
And somewhere underneath the circling, underneath the overthinking and the too-many-ideas and the fear of choosing wrong, there's something quieter. A version of you that has known the answer for longer than she's admitted. She just learned, somewhere along the way, to wait for permission before she trusted it.
You are smart, capable, and enough. That was never in question.
What's missing is someone who can help you find the thread running through everything you've already lived. Once you can see it, you can't unsee it. And once you can't unsee it, you know exactly where to go next.
What We Do Together
There are three ways to work with me, depending on where you are right now.
The Unfolding is for women who haven't yet found their direction. Six months of the internal work, finding the thread, hearing yourself clearly, finally moving.
The Becoming is for women who have direction but keep hitting a wall between knowing and building. Six months of the mindset and momentum work that makes it sustainable.
The Complete Arc is the full 12-month journey, both phases held together with continuity and depth.
Every container begins with a paid Discovery Call. 60 minutes, €111. That's where we figure out which one fits you and why.
What Clients Say
“I came into our conversation feeling overwhelmed because I was looking at everything as one huge challenge and wasn't sure where to begin. That only made it feel even bigger than it really was. What you helped me do was break it down into manageable pieces—like the old saying, "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Once I stopped trying to solve everything at once, my thinking began to change. I could see new pathways, new possibilities, and my creativity really started to open up. You didn't just help me simplify the problem. You helped me approach it in a way that made it feel solvable. I left our conversation with more clarity, more confidence, and a renewed sense of direction. Thank you for helping me see what was possible."
Audley Stephenson, Author of "Living Your Best Audacious Life Ever”
“Before working with Marcela, I hadn’t even considered becoming a Pilates instructor although I had been passionate about this exercise method for years. I had almost given up on the idea of being able to change my career. I felt bored, uninspired, and convinced that I would have to stay in my current job until retirement. My work didn’t give me the opportunity to express who I really am. It didn’t make me shine or bring me alive. Since working with Marcela, I’ve gained clarity about my values, passions, and purpose, and reconnected with my deepest desires. I now have the tools to counter my inner critic, my doubts, and my fears, and I’ve built self-awareness and confidence that I didn’t have before. I’ve created more physical and energetic space in my life, which allows inspiration and new ideas to flow in. I’ve also learned to set boundaries, prioritize what nourishes me, and take intentional, focused action toward the business that feels like me. Marcela’s presence, compassion, and gentle guidance made this journey truly transformative and helped me see what I’m capable of."
Ülle, kickstarted Pilates Studio Pilates My Way
“I was struggling with which direction to go, what to focus on first, and what could truly make things happen. Now, I have more clarity and confidence that I can achieve my goals. I feel much more relaxed and certain about my direction. From being unclear about what to do next with multiple ideas, to nailing down a specific direction to tackle, Marcela has been an exceptional thinking partner. We dived into business objectives, values, target audience, competitive advantages, and operations. The discussion was both thorough and practical. Marcela is one of the best thinking partners. She is a great coach with excellent listening skills who always helps me think outside the box. I feel heard, and she creates a safe space where I can share my ideas without judgment, even the less polished ones. She has significantly helped me accomplish tasks that I had been delaying. I need someone to push me forward, and she does that with grace."
Amy Geng, kickstarted a summer program for kids
“Working with Marcela was honestly a turning point for me. From the very beginning, she met me exactly where I was. There was structure, but zero pushiness. Instead of telling me what I “should” do, Marcela kept bringing me back to what felt true for me and aligned with my life. One of my biggest breakthroughs was realizing I don’t have to follow the constant posting, visibility, and self-promotion often pushed online. Marcela helped me see that I can build a business in a way that feels natural instead of heavy, exhausting, or inauthentic. Her questions were simple but deeply thought-provoking. They cleared out so much noise and second-guessing. As we worked together, ideas started flowing again, and for the first time in a long time, I felt like I could trust myself instead of forcing an outcome. I went from feeling confused and stuck to feeling peaceful, relieved, and confident being who I am. One of the biggest shifts for me was realizing: I don’t have to prove anything. Marcela creates space for the whole person. She helped me find a path that feels like home, and I’m genuinely grateful.”
Kim, kickstarted Value Your People Consulting
“One of the biggest shifts for me has been understanding that I first have to become the person I want to be before I can fully create the life or business I want.” Before working with Marcela, I had wanted to start my own business for years but felt stuck in overthinking, uncertainty, and endless planning. I had ideas and interests, but no real clarity or confidence to move forward. What made working with Marcela different was the way she combined gentleness with honesty and direction. She didn’t just listen; she helped me recognize the thinking patterns that were keeping me stuck and challenged me to move forward in a supportive way. Through our work together, I’ve become much more confident in my own ideas and decisions. I trust myself more, experience far less negative self-talk, and no longer see challenges as failures, but as part of growth and building something meaningful. I also feel much more capable of moving forward even when things feel unclear or uncomfortable. Working with Marcela has been truly encouraging, grounding, and transformative. I would especially recommend her to anyone who feels stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of themselves or the direction they want to take in life or business.”
Tiina, Second Stoori
“Working with Marcela was exactly what I needed during an overwhelming time. She met me exactly where I was, without judgment, and helped me get honest with myself, cut through the noise, and see the bigger picture when everything felt messy and unclear. Through understanding myself, my inner critics, and how to deal with them, I gained the clarity and confidence to focus on what truly mattered, level up in both my professional and personal life, and finally make the career transition I had been putting off. I regained focus and direction, reframed how I see pressure and success, and have the confidence to take bold steps forward. I feel lighter, more purposeful, and more in control. What once felt impossible now feels like the best decision I’ve ever made, and I have her to thank for that.”
NA, kickstarted "Mosaic Studio" and Career Transition
“I was struggling with focus and getting my ideas in order for my future goals. After working with Marcela, my thoughts are much clearer, and I now know how to approach my career transition with confidence. She helped me get organized, dedicate time to my goals, and move forward with purpose. Through our conversations, I uncovered hidden potentials and found the motivation to pursue what I truly want. Marcela creates a comfortable space where you feel safe to open up. She has a remarkable ability to see and point out qualities in you that you may not even realize you have. The process is clear and straightforward, and her unique gift is making big changes feel simple and achievable.”
Gus, Career Transition
“I struggled with imposter syndrome and doubted my abilities as a coach and my confidence level was low. Through conversations with Marcela, certain things have become clearer to me. I have started to be kind to my own self and learning to appreciate the positives within me. Things don’t seem that impossible anymore and my confidence in my own capabilities has risen. I am learning to be kind to myself and remind myself of all I have already achieved. Trying to be patient as perfection take time and things will happen when it’s the best time. Being consistent with my work towards achieving the goal. I would highly recommend Marcela to anyone who is struggling to take the plunge into something unknown. By talking with Marcela, things start to become clearer and the doubts and fears become much more manageable. I felt invigorated about pursuing my goal and staying consistent upon my efforts.”
Azmina Jahani, kickstarted Midlife Health Hub
A Little About Marcela
I spent 30 years building an international career across five countries with organisations including the OECD, the European Central Bank, and companies in the life sciences industry. Roles that provided great salary, benefits, and a title that made sense to everyone around me.
And underneath all of it, a quiet knowing that something still wasn't quite mine.
I know what changes when you finally stop waiting for certainty and start listening to yourself honestly. That experience shapes everything I do now.
I'm an ICF Associate Certified Coach, and I'm known as The Thread Finder, because what I do is help women see the thread running through everything they've lived and built, so they can finally trust where it's pointing.
Not ready to book yet? Come read with me
Some women know immediately. Others need to sit with this for a while first, and that's completely right.
If you're in the second group, my Substack is where I write about identity, meaningful work, and what it actually takes to find your direction after 50.
Just honest writing.
Ready to Find Your Thread?
You don't need to have it figured out before you reach out. You just need to be done with the version of your life that no longer fits.
The Discovery Call is where we start. 60 minutes, €111, and by the end of it you'll know exactly what your next step is.